💭 Behind the Bag

💭 Behind the Bag

In Korea, a common question in everyday life--whether it's at home or at work--is, "Did you eat?"

It's such a common thing we ask, it's more like a greeting. At work, it's kind of like if you were to come back from lunch, see a co-worker (that you're not close with), and they ask you, "How was lunch?" A friendly greeting of acknowledgement, it makes for good, casual vibes.

At home, this simple question can take on deeper meaning.

Of course, many moms in Korea are full-time SAHMS (stay at home moms). When they ask if you ate, it’s usually because they want to check whether they should prepare a meal for you.

But, the act of providing a meal is a deeply meaningful act in a culture where explicit communication is not the norm.

Many times, these acts of service and the accompanying “logistical” question is a replacement for what elders really want to say:

“I’m sorry.”

“I love you.”

“Are you ok?”

“I care.”

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